RHONJ’s Margaret Feels “Horrible” That Jen Never Healed From Affair as Jen Fears Discussing It May Lead to Divorce

RHONJ's Margaret Josephs Feels "Horrible" That Jen Never Healed From Affair as Jen Says She Fears Discussing It May Lead to Divorce, Plus Dolores and Margaret Shade Value System

Jennifer Aydin claims she by no means processed husband Invoice Aydin‘s affair — and for good purpose.

Amid the continuing drama surrounding Invoice’s infidelity on The Actual Housewives of New Jersey, Jennifer admitted that she has steered away from sure conversations with Invoice as a result of she fears they could possibly be detrimental to the way forward for their marriage.

“I didn’t [process the affair],” Jennifer declared on the March 9 episode of the RHONJ: After Present.

In accordance with Jen, she was shocked at how emotional she obtained throughout season 12 and famous that she usually informed herself, “Get it collectively.’” Nonetheless, on the time of the particular affair, Jennifer blocked issues out fully.

“We each tried so onerous to do no matter we are able to to make this relationship work for the kids and for the life. And after I say the life I don’t imply the home, I imply the house, the house that Invoice and I’ve created for my kids,” Jennifer defined. “And it’s scary to me to assume that the extra we speak about issues, the extra… what if we notice we don’t need to be collectively? Is {that a} threat we’re keen to take?”

Along with Jen’s considerations in regards to the fallout that might probably erupt between her and Invoice in the event that they had been to have an in-depth dialog about his dishonest, her husband is certain he desires to proceed of their marriage.

“He’s like, ‘I need to be married to you for the remainder of my life. I would like you and I to be a household with our kids for the remainder… I don’t care if Cinderella comes rolling in on a crimson carpet along with her titles out. I don’t need to be with anyone however you. You’re the mom of my kids,’” she shared. “And I take a look at him and I’m like, ‘I’ve to struggle for him simply as a lot.’”

Persevering with on, Jennifer stated that she’s unconcerned with how individuals really feel about her choice to maneuver on shortly from Invoice’s betrayal.

“That is my manner of processing. You possibly can take it nonetheless you need, signal of weak point, this, that… On the finish of the day, I’m unbothered by what you assume,” she insisted.

Though Jennifer claims that is what works for her, she has a few doubters, together with Dolores Catania, who confronted her throughout Tuesday’s episode and inspired her to handle her unresolved points with Invoice.

“I’m just a little bit in shock by how she took it,” Dolores admitted. “You simply can’t minimize it off, say, ‘Okay, purchase me a brand new ring, let me have one other child, let me have two extra children, let’s purchase a giant home, purchase my mom a home. Do that.’ All of that’s nicely and good however down the street, it’s going to return again and chew you.”

And Margaret Josephs agreed, suggesting that Jennifer places an excessive amount of weight on materials issues.

“Jennifer’s worth is predicated on, for my part, of what different individuals consider her…  her worth is perceived in that. In order that’s why I really feel unhealthy, and that’s an unlucky factor,” Margaret said. “And that’s why I stated she’s not actually joyful. And it’s not due to what Invoice did. It’s as a result of her notion is at all times, ‘What does everybody consider me? What do I’ve?’”

Amid her criticism of Jennifer, Margaret has been accused of being jealous of her co-star. However, based on her, Jennifer has “nothing to be jealous of.”

“I’m not outlined by my materials possessions or what anybody thinks of me. And I feel her definition [is] ‘I’m a health care provider’s spouse and I’ve a giant home,’” she shared.

Margaret additionally stated she felt badly that she didn’t notice what number of unresolved points remained in Jennifer’s marriage.

“I had no concept she by no means healed from this. If something like that goes on, it’s like, I’m going to remedy. We take care of it within the second, we heal, we work by it. We don’t bury it and fake it by no means occurred. So understanding that now, after all I really feel horrible that she needed to undergo that,” Margaret admitted.

The Actual Housewives of New Jersey season 12 airs Tuesdays at 8/7c on Bravo.

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