“I am not mad or offended by your question but I definitely want to educate people about basic social 101 skills. I appreciate your question. I do. Let’s all be honest about basic human behavior and curiosity – Its natural to want to know how someone passed away. Even if it is ‘none of your business,’ right? However, If you’re curious about how someone passed away, but you’re not close enough to already know, then asking is prying. The most inappropriate reaction is enquiring about the cause of death,” wrote Trishala.
She further asked the user the need for details about her boyfriend’s demise, Trishala wrote, “I want you to ask yourself this question – What is the purpose of me doing/ asking this? Will knowing the answer allow me to help this person. Or is it just morbid curiosity? Grief 101 lesson- ‘If you are not entitled to know the specifics of the passing, stop asking. Asking for those details does nothing for the conversation. It does not console the person, nor brings the person who passed away, back.”
In the past, Trishala Dutt has often spoken about her boyfriend’s untimely demise and also expressed how she has been dealing with the grief.